Expressing your true feeling with belly dancing

When students first begin to learn belly dance,Over the years, I've known different dancers who
teachers often focus on technique: the correct way toused different techniques to put themselves "in the
do a hip lift, the correct way to do a shimmy, thezone" emotionally for a performance. Some do a quiet
correct way to isolate a hip circle, the best way tomeditation in the privacy of their dressing rooms
produce a fluid undulation, the correct way to layer abefore they perform. Some "pump themselves up" by
shimmy on top of other moves. Of course, technique isdoing hip drops in time to the previous dancer's music
important. Bad technique can look sloppy or evenbefore it's their own turn to perform, absorbing
cause injury. But technique alone is not enough. Dancethemselves in the music as they do so.
is an art form, and art is all about expression, emotion,Here are some emotions you might try to touch while
soul, and spirit.dancing: Joy ("This is really fun!" or "I'm in love and I
If your dance lacked soul, maybe you allowed thewant the world to know it!" or "I just love this song!") to
logical, organized side of your brain to exert too muchcheerful, happy music Sad reflection ("I miss those
control.happy days when I was in love, but I'm moving on
Maybe you were so busy thinking about what to donow") which is lovely for veil work or standing
next that you forgot to simply enjoy what you wereundulations to a sad song. It's most effective when you
doing. Maybe you were thinking, "I wonder if Ihave an ethnic audience who understands the
remembered to turn off the oven?" Maybe you werelanguage the song is in.
focused on trying to execute a challenging move withDreamy introspection ("I'm allowing you to watch me
perfection. Maybe you wondered what critique waspray") - also lovely for veil work or standing undulations
forming in the brain of the teacher as she gazedStrength, power like a warrior queen, great for sword
thoughtfully at you. All of these things can bework or dramatic music ("I am woman, hear me roar!"
distractions. A busy brain can take your mind away"I have a sword, and I'm not afraid to use it if you
from the joy of the dance.heckle me!") Teasing, playful ("I'll bet you can't do this!"
So, what you need to do here is find a way to emptyor "Yes I do, but not with you") Mischief ("How long will
your mind of all the distracting baggage and take yourit take this waiter to realize I'm following him with my
brain to an "other" place where nothing exists exceptveil?") Surprised pleasure ("Wow, I didn't know I could
you, your music, and your response to it. Explore yourdo this!") as you execute a difficult move Sassy
spirit, let go of your thinking at least for a little while.independence ("I am soooo over that jerk of a man I
Each dancer has her own way of doing this, but hereused to see!" or "I'd rather be single than be in a
is one method that works for some people: Begin byrelationship with a man like you" or "I have a great job, I
selecting music that stirs your heart, that carries yourhave great friends, who needs a man to complicate
imagination to a place of joy, passion, spirit, etc.things?") Humor, good for recovering from bloopers.
Listen to that music over and over, until you know it so(You're tired of getting tangled up in your veil, so you
well that you can hear it in your head even when yourcast aside and pose your pointer finger like a gun
sound system is turned off.barrel and "shoot" it.) Apprehension. Helps build drama
As you listen to that music, allow yourself to feel anwhen using props. ("Will that sword I just placed on my
emotional response to it. It helps to obtain a translationhead fall off?") These suggestions are just a starting
to the lyrics, if possible. Remain aware of whatpoint. Reach out with your soul to find your own
emotion it makes you feel. Delight? Spiritual ecstacy?emotional signposts that feel right with your own music
Quiet introspection? Sorrow? Now, in the privacy ofand dance expression.
your home, dance to the music, and try to cling to theSeparate from actually dancing, look for other ways to
emotion that it evokes in you. I'm not asking you toexplore the creative side of yourself. Take a class in
concoct fake teeth-baring smiles or horrid frowns. Justdrawing.
reach into yourself and try to connect with yourBegin keeping a journal which focuses on your
emotional response. Don't worry about whether you'redaydreams and flights of fancy. The more time you
repeating the same move over and over, or whetherspend creating something, the more comfortable you
your layered shimmy-over-hip circle was done withwill be connecting with that part of your spirit while
precision. Dance with your heart, not with your head.dancing.
Keep practicing this "dance as emotional response" inCreativity and emotional expression come naturally to
your regular at-home practice routine. You'll still want tosome people. For others, it's a skill that must be
separately practice "dance as precision technique" too.learned. It can be learned. The trick is to set aside all
At first, don't try to do both at the same time. Practiceyour "busy brain" thoughts and allow yourself to feel.
one way, then practice the other. Give yourself enoughThis probably won't come easily at first. But keep
experience with each type of practice to feel at easeworking at it, and just like any other new skill the more
with each view of dance.you work on it, the easier it will be. Don't expect
Once you can reach out with your emotions to touchpassion to come flooding out of you the first time you
the music with confidence, then bring together yourtry it. Celebrate your small successes along the way -
emotional and your technical skills, practicing botheach will make the next one come more easily.
together at once.