| ***Question From A Reader:Dear Joseph,I am a | | | | actually |
| student and I wanted to know how to meet girls in the | | | | follow the girl for a bit and see where she's going. If |
| most crucial areas with plenty girls. Here are the | | | | she stops |
| situations First: The Nightclub where the music is so | | | | off at a coffee shop or a bus stop, or whatever, |
| loud, where there are too many people with little or no | | | | THAT is the time |
| space to move, and the girls are dancing with | | | | to approach her! If it looks like she's going someplace |
| themselves,. The main idea is that it is very hard and | | | | you can't |
| almost pointless to start a conversation in these areas. | | | | follow her into (like her home/dorm, for instance) then |
| How do I do it?Second: How do I meet girls who are | | | | you'll have to take the chance and try approaching her |
| walking along the street | | | | cold. But make it a quick approach and include a time |
| maybe going somewhere. Like am in school, how do I | | | | constraint ("I know you're on |
| meet a girl who is walking down maybe to her dorm | | | | your way somewhere, this'll only take a second..."), get |
| or somewhere else. The point is where am from | | | | her number as quick as you can, then move on.Finally, |
| people do this to women all the time. But here in | | | | when it comes to the "boyfriend" thing, that's a matter |
| America, its almost considered weird b'cos you pop | | | | of personal taste. Some guys don't want to mess with |
| out of nowhere and shes not expecting it.Finally, what | | | | that, others |
| do you do when a girl tells you she has a | | | | don't care. The thing is, most women aren't THAT |
| boyfriend? should you leave her alon or continue your | | | | committed to their boyfriends, so it's not as big of an |
| business on | | | | obstacle as you might think.The important thing to do in |
| getting her. What if she is totally in love with her | | | | this situation is to try and "read" |
| boyfriend, how do you win her over?--Xion***My | | | | the woman. Sometimes, a girl will tell you she has a |
| Response:Okay, I guess I'll try tackling each question in | | | | boyfriend when she really doesn't because she wants |
| order...First, Nightclubs ARE very difficult venues. Unless | | | | to politely reject you (and sometimes she really does |
| you're | | | | have a boyfriend and wants to stay |
| specially suited to the party-style nightlife, these | | | | faithful to him). If this is the case, you have to look at |
| venues will be a bit daunting. And even if you are | | | | the |
| predisposed to this type of pick up, you will still have to | | | | signals she's giving you to see if she's actually into you |
| deal with lots of competition from other men.That said, | | | | or not.If a woman does like you and IS, in fact, into you, |
| it's not impossible to meet women in nightclubs. But it | | | | she will usually with-hold the fact that she has a |
| will require you to be a little more outgoing and | | | | boyfriend. And if she does bring it up, she wants you |
| aggressive than other venues.First off, when I'm in a | | | | to take the lead and "sweep her off her feet" so she |
| club, I tend to like to hang out in | | | | won't have to feel guilty about cheating on him. So |
| open-air areas where I can talk to other people easier. | | | | when that's the case, it's time to pump up the |
| Patios and right outside the club can be good for this. | | | | agressiveness on your pick up.Wishing you |
| Most clubs will have some form of outdoor area | | | | success!Joseph MatthewsJoseph Matthews is |
| where you can hang out -- especially places like New | | | | webmaster of and has just released his |
| York and Los Angeles where you're not allowed to | | | | comprehensive guide on how to overcome fear of |
| smoke inside.The dance floor can also be quite | | | | rejection and meet and date tons of beautiful women. |
| effective. If you like to dance, go out there and try | | | | You can check out his website here -- Meet Woman.I |
| dancing with the women who are dancing by | | | | will PAY you to put up this article on your site or in |
| themselves. If they're not into it, move on. If they are, | | | | your newsletter!My site sells products geared to men |
| it's PLAY time! =)Also, keep in mind the time at which | | | | who want advice on dating women. I pay 70% |
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