| I recently have been reading up on a bunch of topics | | | | people. He also manages to make more contacts with |
| regarding social psychology, marketing, business | | | | other people, not only for fun and romance, but for |
| interactions and sociology, and one of the books which | | | | networking as well. How do you get yourself out there |
| has stood out for me was by Malcolm Gladwell, which | | | | to meet more attractive women and other important |
| is called "The Tipping Point." In this book, Malcolm | | | | people? Start by doing the following:1) Go to fitness |
| Gladwell, a contributing writer for the New York Times, | | | | classes. You can always go to a class which focuses |
| points out that social epidemics are usually the result of | | | | on exercise and improving your health, such as |
| a select small group of people who have the social | | | | cardio-kickboxing or yoga. Not only do you get the |
| connections to reach out to several different groups of | | | | benefit of improving your own health, but they usually |
| other people to spread their messages or ideas | | | | have a lot of women in those classes you can meet |
| around to the masses. These people by themselves | | | | as well. In fact, women usually outnumber men in these |
| may not necessarily be significant, but by nature are | | | | classes anywhere from two to five to one.2) Take up |
| extremely social beings who reach out to a wide circle | | | | a cooking class. If you like to grill or make exotic dishes |
| of people, many of whom are important themselves, | | | | (or maybe you can't cook but would like to do so), you |
| either by status or profession.In the book, Mr. Gladwell | | | | can take up a class which will allow you to learn how |
| points out the midnight ride of Paul Revere compared | | | | to prepare food for that special date or occasion. |
| to that of an associate who also went out on a | | | | These classes usually involve hands-on preparation, so |
| midnight ride to warn of the impending arrival of British | | | | you can learn cooking techniques as you go. These |
| troops. He points out that Paul Revere was well | | | | classes also have more women than men participating |
| ingratiated into the social circle of the New England | | | | in them, so you can meet more people.3) Take a |
| colonies and was friends with the movers and shakers | | | | dance class. By this, I don't mean that you have to |
| of several towns, so when he went to warn them that | | | | learn ballet or modern jazz, but if that is your interest |
| "the British are coming," the townspeople gathered | | | | than go for it. Nevertheless, there is a reason movies |
| together to get as many men as possible to halt the | | | | like "Strictly Ballroom" and TV shows like "Dancing |
| British troops. His associate, on the other hand, had | | | | With The Stars" and "So You Think You Can Dance" |
| only a small circle of friends, so when he went to warn | | | | have become so popular - women love dancing! You |
| the townspeople of the British advance, only a handful | | | | can learn how to do ballroom dance, salsa, merengue, |
| of people came to rise up against the British troops.He | | | | the tango or even hip-hop. If you find it hard to meet |
| also pointed out how the AIDS epidemic was spread in | | | | women in clubs because you can't dance, this is a |
| the late 1970s in New York and San Francisco and | | | | good opportunity to improve your dancing skills and |
| how a syphillis pandemic was spread around the | | | | learn how to cut it on the dance floor. Plus you meet a |
| Baltimore ghettoes in the mid-1990s. In each case, it | | | | lot of women in these classes.4) Go to a self-help |
| was a small but very charismatic and promiscuous | | | | seminar. People in general (and women in particular) |
| group of individuals who were well known and liked | | | | are always looking to improve their self-worth, whether |
| among their groups and managed to have sexual | | | | it's their finances or improving their living space. In the |
| relations with a large group of gay men and inner-city | | | | larger cities, there are places which sponsor classes |
| women respectively. These people clamored to be | | | | on how to improve your finances, build wealth, become |
| with these select people because they were | | | | a real estate agent, improve relationships, or even how |
| attractive and had social qualities that the average | | | | to do feng shui, but even smaller areas have classes |
| person did not have. Nevertheless, these pandemics | | | | like this, usually at a local community college. Not only |
| were spread not because of the highly promiscuous | | | | can you meet new people here, but you could learn |
| acts of the social "kings" but by their sexual partners, | | | | something that will improve your financial status at the |
| most of whom were not promiscuous but contracted | | | | same time.5) Volunteer your services. Maybe you |
| the disease and spread it to their friends and lovers.If | | | | have a particular need to help people or you have a |
| you notice a theme in this writing, it's that Paul Revere, | | | | skill you are exceptionally good at and want to share |
| the gay disco "kings" of the late 1970s and the ghetto | | | | with others. Take the time to volunteer and help |
| kings of Baltimore in the 1990s all exhibited highly social | | | | humanity. You can mentor young children at the |
| skills and alpha male behavior, and because of these | | | | YMCA, your local Boys and Girls Club chapter or your |
| skills were able to influence a large group of people to | | | | local Big Brother/Big Sister. You can help Habitat For |
| fight the British or spread a disease to their lovers. Am | | | | Humanity build new homes for the working poor or |
| I recommending that we all get together to start a war | | | | work at you local food bank to give food to the needy. |
| or get each other sick? No way! But what I am saying | | | | If you have good gardening skills, you can teach |
| is that the traits of alpha males feature high levels of | | | | classes on gardening to budding green-thumbs, or |
| sociability and a knack for persuading other people to | | | | maybe you found a way to get rich and build wealth |
| do things for their benefit; i.e., these people usually are | | | | which you can share with others. Whatever skill you |
| leaders when it comes to social contacts and trends | | | | may have, there are probably other people who can |
| and tend to be the life of the party. And the best part | | | | benefit from your knowledge, so take the time to |
| about it is that these traits can be learned and | | | | share it.But what does this have to do with meeting |
| incorporated into your own character. And when they | | | | beautiful women, you say? As I said previously, a |
| are incorporated into your character, it attracts more | | | | person with alpha male traits does these things |
| desirable people into your life, particularly beautiful | | | | primarily to improve himself, but gets the added benefit |
| women.But how do you get these traits if you are shy | | | | of expanding his social circle. Not only do these |
| and awkward? Don't you have to be good-looking or | | | | activities expand his possibilities for love and romance, |
| have a lot of money? Absolutely not!Actually, to get | | | | but they could also get him that dream job, or the tools |
| started all you need to do is expand your horizons and | | | | he needs to start a business or the customers needed |
| social circle. A person whith alpha traits naturally likes | | | | to expand a business or even meet the right people |
| to expand his mind, so he takes the time to learn new | | | | who will help him to build wealth. And by becoming a |
| things and participate in new activities to become a | | | | person richer in experiences and social circles, he |
| more well-rounded person. By doing these things, he | | | | becomes an alpha male.Patrick Huey has some |
| becomes more knowledgeable, which in turn makes | | | | websites with useful dating tips and advice for men. |
| him more interesting, which is attractive to other | | | | You can check out these tips by visiting Pat's Planet. |