| 1. Sharpen up your senses at mealtimes. Eat whilst | | | | one over your lover's naked body seductively. Stroke it |
| wearing blindfolds. Concentrate on the aromas, the | | | | over their nipples and genitals and watch their reaction. |
| textures on your tongue and the tastes. You could | | | | 18. Body piercing is a little extreme but you can get a |
| both be wearing blindfolds or just one of you could, | | | | similar effect from non piercing nipple rings and clit clips. |
| whilst the other offers food to the blind ones lips. Don't | | | | 19. Strategically place mirrors around the bedroom so |
| worry about spillage's, it adds to the sexiness, | | | | that no matter what you get up to you can always |
| especially if your licked clean. | | | | see what's happening from different angles. |
| 2. Explore motions and really get to know your own | | | | 20. You will have to think of a good excuse, but - hire |
| body or maybe just find new tricks. Girls ride your man | | | | a bouncy castle. Either find a secluded place in the |
| moving your hips in all ways possible and with your | | | | garden to erect it or have your fun on it under the |
| body at different angles. Take notes between you of | | | | cover of darkness. |
| which positions and movements hit the spot. | | | | 21. Talk about your fantasies, if you find talking about |
| 3. Silky smooth newly shaven balls. For the man, this | | | | them difficult, write them down. Work through the list |
| offers excitement of naked balls and the sexy | | | | trying to fulfil these fantasies. |
| sensitivity of when they are touched. For the woman - | | | | 22. Dress up as a naughty nurse or doctor and let |
| soft shaved balls are so much nicer to suck and lick. | | | | your lover be the patient and examine any unusual |
| 4. The 'No Penetrative Sex' pact. You both agree to | | | | swellings. |
| the terms of no actual sexual intercourse, however all | | | | 23. Do a slow striptease or lap dance for your lover. |
| other forms of foreplay are allowed, things like - licking, | | | | Make it a slow dance and tease your lover with |
| sucking, kissing, oral sex, toy play, the list could be | | | | movements and gestures, but don't let them touch you |
| endless according to your tastes. The Pact not only | | | | until your ready. Tease them into frenzy. |
| extends foreplay but also encourages great foreplay; | | | | 24. I know it's an old cliché, but - sex on the |
| as one tries to out do the other to see who will want | | | | washing machine whilst it's spinning. If the tremors don't |
| intercourse first. | | | | excite you maybe the location will. |
| 5. Massage oil. Rub one another down slowly in | | | | 25. Undress each other with your teeth. |
| massage oil slightly warmed in the microwave. Let | | | | 26. Get an assorted collection of gloves - leather, lace, |
| your bodies glide against each other to massage and | | | | wool, surgical gloves and marigolds and test them all |
| feel the tantalising sensations. | | | | out during foreplay for different sensations with their |
| 6. Pizza! One of you goes out to get a take out pizza, | | | | textures. |
| and when they return they are the pizza delivery | | | | 27. Indulge in hair play. Trail and rub your hair over your |
| person, and the partner invites them in and tries to | | | | lover's naked body. |
| seduce them. | | | | 28. Lasting longer tips. |
| 7. Buy a new sex toy and discreetly hide it and | | | | SQUEEZE - approximately 3 or 4 strokes before |
| surprise your partner by producing it during your next | | | | climax wrap your thumb and index finger around your |
| lovemaking session. | | | | cock and squeeze, concentrating the pressure on the |
| 8. Blindfold your partner and lead them to a large flat | | | | urethra. |
| surface - a table or maybe the floor. Lay them down | | | | START & STOP - this involves stopping before |
| on their backs and decorate their body in food - slices | | | | climax to let the excitement clam and then starting |
| of strawberries, whipped cream, jelly, sliced bananas, | | | | again. Using this technique often is said to improve your |
| ice cream syrups. Their skin will tingle with delight. You | | | | sexual stamina, as too can regular masturbation. |
| can either massage it into their body and get dirty, or | | | | CONDOMS - wearing condoms can also make you |
| eat it off them. | | | | last longer because it reduces friction and sensitivity. |
| 9. Read erotic stories or confessions in adult | | | | 29. Use pillows to support and lift body parts during |
| magazines together. Whilst one reads the other | | | | sex, intensifying positions and eliminating strain, making |
| masturbates or performs oral for the reader. | | | | positions much more pleasurable. |
| 10. Go out on a date. Fix up a date and get ready for it | | | | 30. Phone sex. This does require imagination. Probably |
| at different locations and meet up in a bar. Feel the | | | | the hardest part about phone sex is steering the |
| excitement of dressing up for your partner and | | | | conversation away from the 'norm' and down the |
| preening yourself so to impress. Feel the anticipation of | | | | steamy sexy road. Maybe you could start by talking |
| meeting up, wondering what they will be wearing, and if | | | | about your last sexy encounter and develop from |
| they remembered to put their knickers on. | | | | there. You could act out a fantasy. Move your own |
| 11. Use your lover as a canvas for painting on. Lay | | | | hands to where your partner says he would touch |
| them down on the floor and use children's finger paints | | | | you. |
| and assorted brushes - feathers, fingers, breasts, penis, | | | | 31. A shaved pussy turns on some people. You might |
| sponges - I'm sure you will think of lots of other things | | | | want to ask your partners views before you get the |
| you could uses as brushes. | | | | razor out. However it does increase sensitivity and |
| 12. Host a huge party at your house, and when the | | | | stops the pubic hair between the teeth complaint. |
| party is swinging and the wine is flowing; sneak about | | | | 32. Try BDSM (bondage, domination, sado, and |
| with your lover, hiding in silly places - the broom | | | | masochism) Attend a S&M workshop or get a book |
| cupboard, the car, or lock your selves in the bathroom | | | | for information. Lots of toys and props are available on |
| for some heavy petting. | | | | the market geared to this fetish. But remember to |
| 13. Why not visit a swingers club together or a fetish | | | | agree on a safety word. If anyone uses this word |
| or strip and lap dancing club. Participation isn't | | | | during play, every thing has to stop. |
| compulsory, and you might find just watching arousing. | | | | 33. Make you own porn movie. Grab a camera and |
| Check out our 'out and about' page for more | | | | tape your steamy sex session. It may be a little |
| information and to see what's happening near you. | | | | embarrassing to watch back, but very horny to make. |
| 14. Bathe together. Fill the bathroom with candles and | | | | 34. Keep your toys clean. There are sex toy cleaning |
| the bath with bubbles and take a nice bottle of wine | | | | products available. Keeping toys clean is very |
| with you. Wash each other and talk and relax, mind | | | | important, you don't want to give yourself or your lover |
| you don't loose the soap! | | | | an infection. |
| 15. Whilst at work or when your apart, strike up a | | | | 35. Do a sexy photo shoot. You can change your |
| mobile phone text sex conversation - It could start | | | | clothing and undies, and create a collection of sexy |
| 'When I get home I'm going to do _ _ _ _ _ _ to you'. | | | | photos. However, unless you have a digital camera, |
| Spend the day titillating each other with steamy | | | | you will have to keep the pictures erotic rather than |
| messages building up a story. | | | | pornographic, else they wont be developed; and if you |
| 16. Have a picnic on the living room floor on a blanket | | | | too shy to take and collect them from a developing |
| or cushions and pillows in front of the fire. | | | | shop, use a send away in the post developing place. |
| 17. Ice cube play. Make a tray of ice cubes and rub | | | | |